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Story: It's Power and Potential
Storytelling
is an excellent way of caring for the soul. It helps us to see the
themes that circle our lives, the deep themes that tell the myths
we live.
Care
of the Soul by Thomas Moore
In
the twenty first century, much has been forgotten about how important
story is to the rootedness and well being of the individual. In
our deep desire to be modern, we have overlooked this oldest of
traditions that brought us to this time in which we now live.
Somehow
we believe it no longer matters. The Quest for the Grail, the long
journey that brings the hero home, the awakening of Sleeping Beauty,
all manner of tales that touch that moment of truth, that moment
that tells us who we really are.
And
yet we no longer feel called upon to see ourselves in these dramas
or feel required to fantasize a new beginning.
“I
don't have time, I don't want to know, to what end, I've got better
things to do”…all of these say why storytelling is of no value.
But
what of seeing your full life in perspective, to have a chance to
live your story, to not be quite so sure the ending has already
been written?
Storytelling
allows for visionary moments, moments when you can view the past,
not as all bad or all good, but just as it was…for whatever your
story, it got you where you are today. Storytelling allows you to
observe the patterns and processes that got you here, and allows
each of us to make those observations.
Essential
Wisdom stories are very consise stories about very real people,
animals or situations. They have the potential to inspire and have
great power...
The Loser
This
story tells about a loser who happens to be a horse and his name
is Haru-urara . Since losing can be relative, let's put his losing
in perspective. Haru-urara has lost every one of his last one hundred
and four races…that would be all the races he has ever run.
His
story
Haru-urara
means ‘gentle spirit' and this horse's enormous capacity for losing
has captured the hearts of the Japanese people…a people known for
their tenacity under fire. It seems there is a growing class of
losers in Japan as well as corporate warriors who are being done
in by the system. This horse represents to them the greatness that
lies in learning how to lose with grace and finding the greater
meaning in what it means to lose.
But
there are interesting subtleties in this story. Haru-urara has an
owner who knew right from the beginning that he was not a winner
but he believed that he would race with heart and so as he saw it,
it was not just about just about winning, but being in the race.
For
it is clear that not everyone will win the race. But look at what
this horse is doing in just doing his job. He has guaranteed a pasture
for himself for his twilight years, not the normal fate of losing
horses. He has inspired a country of humans who are down on themselves,
to not give up even when it feels like they are losing. He has saved
a racetrack by bringing in crowds and shortly he is going to be
a Seabisquit-type star in his own movie.
The
tremendous outcome from all this losing begs a question. What if
Haru-urara's real work was to inspire and losing races was his way
of doing it? Why that would make him a winner wouldn't it?
The
w isdom
So
the question is, if Haru-urara continues to race, does he lose if
he wins? For oftentimes we are more generous to the loser and more
envious of the winner…for aren't winners just lucky? Know that whatever
the outcome, his story and his greatness is in his journey. Although
he had less than most, his ‘gentle spirit' helped him find that
which was meaningful to him. Perhaps it teaches us that there is
greatness in whatever we do whatever the outcome, if we will just
get on for the ride, stay the course and take pride in being winners
for trying.
It
is our habit to focus on winners when they have arrived. Maybe it
is more important to find out what qualities got them there. That
is the real story. For know that the next time the race gets difficult,
it is those qualities that will get them across the ‘finish line'.
Storytelling illuminates, inspires
and
if
you
are truly aware and alive…
Storytelling can be transformative!
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